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Elder Planning Isn't Just For The Elderly

How can I talk to my family about my parents’ long-term care?

On Behalf of | Mar 3, 2021 | Care Planning

As your parents age, you will need to take some responsibility for their care in order to keep them safe and healthy. When the time comes that you recognize they require more care, you may need to talk with other family members to determine what to do.

It can be tough to start the conversation. It is awkward when children have to take care of their parents after things being the other way around. The situation can become even more tricky when you have siblings with whom you need to consult when making decisions. U.S. News and World Report explains that you need to ensure you and your family are on the same page when it comes to the long-term care plan for your parents.

Speak to them first

It is a good idea to present a united front to your parents. To do this, you need to meet with your siblings and discuss what you want to do. You should set up a time to get together and make decisions about what you would like to happen. You may find you are all thinking different things, which means it can take some time to come together on an agreement, but it is essential that you do so.

Discuss important points

You want to be sure you and your siblings discuss all the aspects of your parents’ care. This not only includes physical care but also finances. You may want to divide up the duties, which can make it easier to manage the situation, especially if your parents have complex health situations.

Be flexible

You may already have a plan in mind, but you should respect that your siblings may not agree. Be ready to compromise and work together to reach the final decisions. Once you have a united front, you can approach your parents to discuss what they want.