It can be challenging to acknowledge when your parent needs long-term care. You may have always been there to support them, but as they age, their needs may exceed your capabilities.
New York’s Office for the Aging estimates that the state’s population of 60 and older will increase by 25% by 2030. This demographic shift highlights the importance of planning for long-term care and understanding the signs that may point to your parent’s need for additional support.
Physical health changes
One of the first changes you might notice is a decline in physical health. Chronic health conditions can affect your parent’s ability to perform daily living tasks.
A person struggling with mobility issues and frequent hospitalizations may show:
- Poor personal hygiene: If your parent wears dirty clothes, doesn’t bathe regularly or neglects dental care, they might need help. Poor personal hygiene could be due to physical limitations or simply forgetting daily tasks.
- Weight loss: If your parent is losing weight without trying, it could mean they’re not eating properly. They might have difficulty cooking, shopping for groceries or even remembering to eat. Poor nutrition can lead to other health issues, making long-term care even more necessary.
Cognitive, emotional and social signs
Changes in mental and emotional state are also important indicators. Cognitive impairment can bring drastic impacts on your parent’s quality of life. Your parents may experience:
- Mood swings and personality changes: If your parent is irate, anxious or depressed, it might be a sign that they’re struggling.
- Social withdrawal: If they stop participating in activities they once enjoyed or start isolating themselves from friends and family, they might benefit from a better support system.
- Inability to manage finances: Mounting unpaid bills, piles of unopened mail or unusual spending could mean your parent needs help keeping up with their financial responsibilities. They might face problems like utility shut-offs or eviction.
Long-term care can be a sensitive topic that’s challenging to approach. However, open and honest conversation with your parents about their needs is essential. Take proactive steps to help your parents receive the care they need to thrive.
If unsure about the next steps, consider consulting with an elder law attorney. They can help you navigate the complexities of long-term care planning, which include asset protection and medical decision-making. Your parent’s well-being is worth the effort.